The Other Woman or Girl

Friday, February 12, 2016

To the other woman girl,

People saw your face, probably talked about you. I can guarantee it's nothing good. I just want to say that no matter how the both of you try, you will always be THE OTHER WOMAN.

I am just kidding. Or am I? Society knows that if you put yourself out there as the other woman, people will talk and that is definite. Let them be. If you are strong enough, let them be.

You see, I try to put myself in your shoes. Being the other woman must be honourable. It's a game. Best woman wins. But there were other women out there so that means, you're the easiest of them all. They bolted. You stayed.

Let me try to think again. What will I do if I am at that age? Ok, let me be you for now because I can never do that to another woman. Never. It's treacherous, it's devious, it speaks the level of class you're at. Will you want this to happen to your mother? Again, what if I am you? Maybe I'd pursue what I want and care less about what others think. Because, at that age, I'd probably think that a guy with a stable job means something. A guy that can drive me around, a guy that buys me gifts... I probably scored! I can show him off to my friends. So what if I know he's attached, engaged or married? So what if I know that there are other girls out there? I win! He chooses me. Did he?

What if I tell you that when you grow older, you will realize that all that won't matter especially when you realize that someone else is taking your reign. Karma is such a bitch. Don't say I didn't warn you. Afterall, you're not the only woman he was after when he was with me. You're just... easy. 

Why easy? Maybe, you're younger and that is why you boost his ego. He does not need to keep up with you. You need to keep up with him.

It's okay. Have him. He is all yours. I can't guarantee he will be yours forever because the other woman usually got cursed by everyone. My god! I don't know how many times I must repeat this deceitful behaviour. I won't call you a slut either because you're young. Go ahead. Have your heart broken. If you can be very patient like I did, good.

That's all. Here I am laughing my head off because I just wasted my time with this post. I also just realized that there are people like you who won't feel a pinch because this behaviour is acceptable to the people of YOUR kind. Dignity is something you people throw around. Post more pictures together. Let everyone see the other woman who breaks someone else's relationship and has the cheek to tell me otherwise. The next time you go out on a date, you will receive stares. Don't worry, he will have a solution. Besides, you will have to stay strong don't you? He will tell you to ignore, to stay strong, apologise to you and probably get back at me with words I'll never read.

Maybe I should change the other woman to 'girl' instead. Real woman will leave. A girl will just stay and try to overcome this.

I found a similar post. It's on Thought Catalog. Link is HERE. Let this be a lesson for all.


Amalia on falia.and.amz

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